Are you tired of your online dating profile not getting the results you want? In this article, I’m sharing five critical mistakes I see all the time on both men and women’s profiles and how to fix them.
These are the exact steps I took to refine my approach and find my ideal partner. Believe in the power of quantum physics and stay laser-focused to get what you truly want.
Tip #1 - Avoid writing a noval!
Online Dating Mistake: Writing a novel. Profiles that are too long and detailed can be overwhelming and off-putting.
Mindset Tip: Over-sharing in your profile can be reflective of someone who is in of a therapist, and this behavior is known to be an actual trauma response. It’s important to remember that your dating profile isn’t the place for extensive personal history. Be clear and concise. Let people discover more about you through conversation.
Tip #2 - Maintain your value
Online Dating Mistake: Being on all the dating sites. It makes you appear less selective and lowers your perceived value.
Mindset Tip: If you are seen everywhere on everything, you may come across as desperate, which can diminish your perceived value. Just like capsule collections or limited editions in fashion, scarcity creates desirability. Choose one or two platforms that suit you best to enhance your appeal. If after a month or so, things are not going well, delete or deactivate your current profile and make a brand new one with different images, a new bio and start again.
"Seek a man that is not a people pleaser if you want to relax into your feminine energy."– Sadia Khan
Tip #3 - Don't use deceptive photos
Online Dating Mistake: Using old or misleading photos. This is deceptive and starts your relationship with a lie.
Mindset Tip: Living in a world where words have no weight, misleading people from the start shows a lack of integrity and can attract similar behavior. Remember, we often attract who we are. If you start a relationship with deception, you may end up connecting with someone who also lacks honesty. Choose authenticity to build genuine connections.
Tip #4 - Focus on what you want
Online DatingMistake: Listing everything you don’t want in a partner. This can make you seem bitter and negative.
Mindset Tip: Venting negativity in your profile can signal unhealed wounds and emotional baggage. Remember, your trauma can become their drama. While you don’t need to be completely healed to start dating, it’s crucial to be on a path of healing and self-awareness. Focus on what you desire and bring positivity to your profile to attract positive connections.
Tip #5 - Momentum matters
Online Dating Mistake: Letting the conversation drag on online without moving to real-life interactions.
Mindset Tip: We should always be building toward in our relationships. Momentum in dating is like building a house: you lay each brick, paint each wall, and hammer each nail consistently. Similarly, in relationships, every interaction—text, call, date—should contribute to moving things forward. Keep the energy flowing to deepen connections and build something meaningful.
Think of dating like building a house
Think of dating momentum like building a house: each interaction is a brick, each date a new wall, and each conversation a hammering of the next. Just as you wouldn’t leave a half-built house, keep the momentum going in your relationships. Consistency in moving from texts to calls, from coffee dates to dinners, builds strong foundations. Remember, every step forward builds towards something meaningful, like the small, pink bag symbolizing love and commitment.
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