If You Identify Yourself Through Your Relationships You Will Never Find Your Worth
Angela Jean
The relationship con is a dirty game. And unfortunately, there are a lot of people who play it.
However, you don’t have to be conned. When you know what to look for, you increase your chances of catching the con in the act.
When you do your best to follow an ethical and moral path in life, you don’t normally see the con artists. After all, it’s very difficult to see someone you’ve never been. It’s hard to spot behavior you’re unfamiliar with, however, after experiencing it myself; I know it well!
In the area of relationships, all you need to do is follow a few simple rules:
1. Don’t fall in love fast
2. Don’t ignore the first red flags
3. Say “no” every now and then to see how they react
4. Don’t ignore that feeling that there is something you can’t put your finger on
5. Beware of the “conditioning” process
They show up in the beginning meeting your every need and making you believe they want to fulfill every desire you have. They put you through a “grooming” and “conditioning” process. You get groomed into loving and trusting someone that plans to turn against you after they know you are loyal to them.
They make you believe they are kind, supportive, and loving. You get conditioned into believing that they are really there for you and have your best interest in mind. The cons only go after the innocents who don’t know the game.
They make you believe they are kind, supportive, and loving. You get conditioned into believing that they are really there for you and have your best interest in mind. In other words, they make you believe in things that aren’t true.
Again, these days the relationship con is a dirty game. And unfortunately, there are a lot of people who play it.
But don’t con yourself into believing someone else’s con when you notice orange and red flags. Dismissing those highlights are the biggest con game of all.
Conclusion
When we want and hope, we stay in their game. We con ourselves!
*Pay attention to whom they avoid being around since con artists don’t like to be caught, they won’t want to hang around those who can see right through them.
All relationships circle back to the relationship you have with yourself. Build out that and the rest will follow:)
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